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Once A Cheater Always A Cheater – Save Your Relationship By Recognizing A Cheater Early On!

Posted by on Jul 1, 2016 in Personal Relationships | Comments Off on Once A Cheater Always A Cheater – Save Your Relationship By Recognizing A Cheater Early On!

If you want to reduce the stress related with partners and get in a relationship with someone worthy of you, then recognizing cheaters might be crucial. These tips will definitely help you recognize a person who is not worth your time or even your love.


Cheating In A Relationship

Number one purpose behind separation is cheating. The vast majority separate or even think about separation is when they find out that their companion has been unfaithful. When your supposed loved one cheats, it’s not just the feeling of how you have been lied to that hurts. What hurts more is that you can no longer trust your partner. You will eventually start to question yourself whether your relationship was based on lies in the first place.

There are lots of articles and help where you can check whether your partner is unfaithful to you. Check out these six important tips to help you out.

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You should pay close attention to any sudden or quick change in a partner’s behavior. Obviously you will be the one who knows them best. If by chance you notice that your partner is doing something that he/she would otherwise not do, then you might want to wonder the cause of the sudden interest.

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You know what they say, looks can be deceiving. Whether it’s a new haircut or a totally different style of wardrobes, you need to wonder: who is he/she trying to impress? Usually when you are attracted to someone, you try to look your best to grab their attention. If by chance you notice your partner spending an excessive amount of time in front of the mirror, then maybe they are trying to impress someone other than you. Usually makeovers are done to try to impress someone. If it’s not you they are trying to excite than it might be someone else.

Do They Hide Their Phone/Computer?

You need to monitor whether your partner is concealing his cell phone or hiding a laptop from you. The digital world changed our ways of communication and the first line of defense is your online profile. If you think something is wrong, then modestly check the messages on your partner’s phone. If there is nothing to hide then there is nothing wrong in doing it, with moderation of course.

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Pay attention to what your partner is saying. If he or she mentions an unfamiliar name that keeps popping up, then you should look into that new name. Keep in mind that you should be pushing your partner in order to meet that new person. Call it jealousy, call it whatever you want. I call it being proactive. Maybe your partner is drifting away so you need to grab their attention again.

Are They Frequently Late From Work?

An outdated excuse is the common “I’m late at work”. If they are usually not late from work but all of a sudden happen to have more of an interest for work, then ask yourself why? A simple technique to check is just call them at work to check up and say “hi”.

You might be wondering that the above tips seem rather possessive, but think of it the other way around. If your partner is indeed not cheating on you but you notice some of the above signs. Then he or she might be wondering off. It is your chance to be proactive and gain them back.

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Unusual Secrets To A Healthy Relationship

Posted by on Sep 20, 2016 in Love | Comments Off on Unusual Secrets To A Healthy Relationship

My Partner and I have been together for over 7 years but you know what, it feels new every day. Today I will tell you our 10 unusual secrets to a healthy, fulfilling & conscious relationship.

Personal Evolution

One of the fundamental things to understand is that every single relationship serves a higher purpose whether you’re aware of it or not. And No, the purpose is not to fill a gap or end your loneliness. The true purpose of a relationship is your own personal evolution and self-discovery.

You discover yourselves through relating and creating with another being. And this is the true reason for your existence here on this planet. To experience yourself in all different aspects and to grow as a soul.

Relationships, especially long-term relationships, hold amazing opportunities for growth, self-expression and healing. But this of course assumes that a relationship is conscious. Let’s look into the next point to see how you can make your relationship more conscious.

Share With Your Partner

The more you share of who you truly are with your partner the more powerful your relationship will become. Now don’t get me wrong here, I don’t want to sugarcoat anything. Speaking your truth can be painful and challenging but if there is one thing that will deepen the connection with your partner and accelerate your own growth it is truth.

I am not talking about sharing the obvious stuff, I am talking about the tough stuff. For example, sharing with your partner when you felt attraction to another person, when you lied, when you feel unsatisfied in bed or when you messed up big time.

Speak your truth with courage and speak it with love. Speak it even when your voice shivers. Let your partner look into the depth of your soul. You are doing this ultimately for both of you. So talk with your partner. Talk, talk and then talk even more.

Don’t think I am a saint; I’ve messed up many times in my life. I have lied and I have not spoken my truth and you know what it always ended in a big mess. My biggest lesson learned is: Truth is no one to mess with because truth is relentless. It will never leave you alone so you better take the first step. The deeper your relationship goes, the more stuff will come up for you and your partner.

Childhood Secrets

Being ready to heal your wounded inner child and working on a better version of yourself is crucial if you want to heal or empower your relationship. You really have to do this work. I can’t stress that enough. Your wounded inner child wants to be seen and needs love.
I encourage you to start with this exercise and I’ll also explain more about the wounded inner child. I recommend the book “Healing the Inner Child” from Thich Nhat Hahn.


Seriously, if you want to make your relationship work you will have to learn the art of forgiveness. Your partner will hurt you. You will hurt your partner. It happens and it is very human. Forgiveness is the conscious decision of letting go of the past and focusing on the present. The great Mahatma Gandhi once said that forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Forgiving someone is not an entirely altruistic act, it’s actually something you’re doing for both of you.


My lover and I do everything together; we even work together. It is the result of our journey together and I love creating it with this man. People always ask how we are able to work so closely together. Well I believe that co-creation is fundamental to a fulfilling relationship. Co-creation can be anything: Mindful, empowering conversations, traveling, meditating together or doing sports together. But don’t force it, a co-creation should happen naturally.
These were the first 5 unusual secrets I cherish with my partner every day. They have made our relationship stronger and stronger. I believe that my relationship with my partner is fresh and full of excitement and pleasure.

Be sure to come back around next week for the second part of this article. I guarantee you it will take your relationship to a level full of energy and love.

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Divorce And Relationships

Posted by on Jul 17, 2016 in Divorce | Comments Off on Divorce And Relationships

Love and Relationships

Everybody has been hurt by their ex so badly that they swear they will not date anymore. Nevertheless, it’s simply not always the case. Lots of women say that they don’t need anymore relationships after separation because it will certainly impact their kids. It’s fine to move on. As a matter of fact, lots of people anticipate their ex-lovers will move on and have sex with other partners.

Is It Love?

The only thing that you should be bothered with is when your relationship is based solely on sex. Then after you split-up you need to never ever return with your ex-spouse. If this is an individual who would continuously harm you, then why would you ever return together. It’s not helping you with the separation and also it’s not helping the kids, if there are any. When you hook-up again with an ex-lover, it only causes more confusion. If you start seeing your ex again, you will notice that the kids will be just as confused as you. They might have incorrect hopes of you both returning together which can be rather damaging to the children.

Next off, when thinking about making love again after a divorce you need to ask yourself why did you decide to in the first place. Do you merely feel lonely? Is it a hormones thing or do you truly care about them? If it is something more than loneliness and you really care about them then you will be a lot more likely to base the relationship not only on the sex. Love has risks, yet you intend to make sure that you don’t turn your back on them. You need to make sure that your relationship was not just a lie. You need to check that you are not in the relationship to hide your feelings and to keep a distance from love. Don’t intend to be with someone that you don’t care about so you know that your heart doesn’t get hurt again.

We Are All Different

One more point to bear in mind is that every man is different. You should not think about how they will certainly harm you since that’s just what others men do. If you base your new relationship on what occurred in previous relationships, then you are condemning yourself. It’s fine to rely on someone once more and to enjoy love again. There are risks, however that’s the strange thing about love, it deserves the risks.

If you intend on participating in sexual intercourse with someone else after a separation, then make certain that this is something you want. Make sure you can live with the decision and that you take full responsibility. And most importantly is that you are happy.

Start of fresh. Try to remove previous pain when you start a new relationship. Do not compare your actions with them to your previous relationships. If everything is fine then it will surely work out. Love is complicated and one of the strangest feelings. It’s tough to explain it, and it’s tough to tell why things happen the way they do. You never know when you are falling in love or even out of love.

The important note to learn from all of this is to not let your divorce hold you back from having a good relationship with someone else.


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